Have you ever been invited to afternoon tea at Lumley Castle?,
and did Joanna follow the old-fashioned dictate 'milk in first,?
'MIF'-- was apparently a sign of good breeding-- it demonstrated that one needed to preserve one's thin porcelain in one's typically cold English houses from cracking at the touch of one's hot tea"
The complete opposite to the Sloanes, who disdainfully label such people as 'Miffys' or "NQOC, Darling"
