Dear Prydonian and Graceful Leonard -
Will be PMing both of you, but I did wish to comment briefly here also.
I have read and reread all your comments in this Topic.
It is very difficult sometimes, when we only have words to convey meanings. In person we have both voice inflections, and body language, to help assure folks understand what we are trying to say. Then too, we are an international community here, with people also over a broad range of ages, and sometimes meanings do not translate exactly across countries nor even across our decades. So our intent can be misunderstood.
Besides Tom, we all have our our second and third ad. infin. ... favourite doctors.
There is a YouTube video out on the net where the Doctors [cos players] get together for a Christmas party and I can send its URL, if you would like to see it. The main reason I mentioned it here, is, it is a perfect example of the kind of thing I am talking about. Out of context, this line, or that line, might be seen as poking fun at the Doctor's different personalities/strengths/weaknesses/etc. or even as being mean-spirited of one Doctor towards another. But taken as a whole, it is all satire, and tongue-in-cheek, and it plays one Doctor's personality against the other in a very humourous way. No hurt is intended in it, towards any Doctor or any fan of any Doctor. And I believe the same situation applies here.
Then too, not knowing exactly what you two gentlemen (and respected Members of Tom) have shared in your PMs to each other, I sincerely hope by now, you have been able to work out your differences, to each others' mutual satisfaction. So, if there is any way I can be of any further help, to either one of you, please feel to PM me.